What are some signs that a therapist may have poor boundaries with their clients?
Last Updated: 30.06.2025 12:18

Struggling with fantasies of deeper connections with clients, whether sexual or parental or other intense or intimate relationships beyond psychotherapy.
Eager anticipation (or anxious anticipation) of the next session in ways that distract.
Failing to mention the client in supervision/consultation, out of fear the supervisor/consultant will advise return to ordinary healthy boundaries.
Webb telescope took a direct image of two exoplanets. See it now. - Mashable
Obsessing about clients outside of work hours.
General Introduction to Boundaries from Panahi Counseling:
Disclosing feelings, fantasies, and experiences to the client in ways not related to the work the client is engaged in.
Why climbing the stairs can be good for your body and brain - BBC
These items can happen fleetingly, briefly, in any therapy, but if they’re frequent, it’s definitely time for the therapist to get some good, solid supervision/consultation.
Routinely going over the time limit with certain patients, compromising the time for the next client.
Sense of competition with persons who are important in the client’s life.
Science news this week: Overdue earthquakes and star-shaped brain cells - Live Science
Serious disappointment when the client cancels a session.
Frequent phoning or texting of clients to “check up on them and make sure they’re OK.”
Session-expressed curiosities about client details not relevant to the therapy.
Vero beatae repudiandae excepturi hic quia tenetur.
Off the top of my ancient head: